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  • Sept. 22, 2025

    Medical tech product development: How to tell someone
    their ‘baby’ is ugly


    Lalita Abhyankar, MD, MHS, FAAFP

    Editor’s Note: In her previous blog post, Lalita Abhyankar, MD, MHS, FAAFP, wrote about the need for family physicians to be involved in medical tech product development. In this follow-up post, she writes that giving feedback to product developers is a skill that takes practice.

    I used to engage with tech designers and product engineers with incredulity. If I was beta testing a product I didn’t like, my feedback was harsh. 

    Unsurprisingly, it was also often dismissed.

    “Well,” I would hear, “as long as it does what we need, we don’t have time to make the changes you’re talking about.”

    The irony was that I was commenting on how the product wasn’t useful and wouldn’t be adopted quickly. I was usually right.

    From harsh criticism to constructive feedback

    One day, while talking to a designer, I realized why my feedback kept getting ignored. The designer’s team had received a directive to make a product. The product leaders didn’t have the clinical know-how to build out the correct constraints. The team had worked hard on the product, feeling accomplished. The clinicians who beta tested the product came back with outrage. The product wasn’t safe to use. It led to multiple medication errors in the chart. The product team felt deflated and defensive.

    What I realized in that moment was that I was tasked with something like sharing bad news with a patient. I was telling a very invested parent (the product team) that their baby (the product) was ugly.

    “Communicating effectively with someone in another discipline means clarifying language, values and what mutual success looks like. The responsibility of letting someone know that their baby is ugly is one that takes practice.”

    — Lalita Abhyankar, MD, MHS, FAAFP

    A new approach: Show and tell

    So I started telling developers stories about what I was looking for or how I was trying to beta test the product during a clinical day. I encouraged the team members to shadow me in the clinic. Instead of giving the product team my assessment, I decided to share my subjective and objective findings first, the same way I would when presenting a patient case. 

    A remarkable thing happened. Instead of offering workarounds on how to use the product more efficiently and placing the onus on me, the team evaluated the facts of my use.

    “Oh,” I was told, “based on what you’re saying, it’s just not going to work the way it is built right now.”

    The team was now curious. I was able to offer more examples of use cases. Notes were taken furiously. 

    Collaboration: Building a more usable tool

    Product teams, like family physicians, are trained to be diagnosticians. The more a family doctor knows about a patient’s circumstance, the better we can create personalized plans for patients based on their home life, circumstances, symptoms, affordability, etc. Product teams do the same, expect they often don’t know the information they need until we give them the parameters within which they need to design. The best product people, like us, are excellent at assessing needs. Those with less experience need clear specifics and storytelling to understand the problem that they are solving for. As a non-product person, I don’t actually know the constraints or capabilities of the software. I tend to suggest solutions that replicate paper charts. But a fresh pair of technical eyes can create a more seamless solution that optimizes the technology we actually have.

    When the product team got back to me, they had moved a few buttons around and changed the colors and the general flow. These minimal alterations suddenly made the tool usable and even effective. It wasn’t perfect, but it wasn’t, to quote the words I used originally, a “useless time-suck” of a product anymore.

    From impulse to insights

    Two years ago, I started a podcast with Kelly Nieves, MD, FAAFP, a family physician and chief medical informatics officer at Waco Family Medicine in Texas, in order to promote dialogue about this exact communication challenge between family physicians and product developers. Through the podcast, One Click at a Time, Kelly and I have had a number of conversations on feedback and technological shifts impacting family medicine, and have hosted a number of family medicine leaders who are innovating in the health care space.

    It’s not an easy skill to develop. I struggle constantly to check my own impulses. After all, as insular as medical training is, product development is equally culturally insular. Communicating effectively with someone in another discipline means clarifying language, values and what mutual success looks like. The responsibility of letting someone know that their baby is ugly is one that takes practice.      


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