MethodExamples
Verbal
Continuers“Go on,” “I hear you,” “Hmmm,” “Aha”
Legitimation“That makes sense.”
Open-ended questions“Tell me more about...”
Understanding“It seems like …”
Exploration“I wonder if you …”
Rephrasing“Let me summarize what you have told me so far…”
Checking the patient's understanding“Could you summarize what we have discussed so far?”
Nonverbal
AttentionJudicious eye contact
ResponsivenessFacial expressions such as grinning, lip biting, concerned frowning
AttentivenessHolding of chin, keeping index finger on temple
OpennessPalms exposed, avoiding crossed arms or legs
InterestLeaning forward
Active listeningHead nodding
FocusPurposefully turning away from the computer or medical file
Tactful silent pauses
Avoiding interrupting or completing sentences